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Thursday, March 31, 2011

Maintaining the Proper Relationship

Mea e 'ai e tatau ma le aso
“ the friend of the bridegroom ” (John 3:29).

Goodness and purity should never be traits that draw attention to themselves, but should simply be magnets that draw people to Jesus Christ.   If my holiness is not drawing others to Him, it is not the right kind of holiness; it is only an influence which awakens emotions and evil desires in people and diverts them from heading in the right direction.

A person who is a beautiful saint can be a hindrance in leading people to the Lord by presenting only what Christ has done for him, instead of presenting Jesus Christ Himself.  Others will be left with this thought—“What a fine person that man is!” That is not being a true “friend of the bridegroom”—I am increasing all the time; He is not.

To maintain the friendship and faithfulness to the Bridegroom, we have to be more careful to have a moral and vital relationship to Him above everything else, including obedience.

Sometimes there is nothing to obey and our only task is to maintain a real connection with Jesus Christ, seeing that nothing interferes with it.  Only occasionally is it a matter of obedience.

At those times when a crisis arises, we have to find out what God’s will is. Yet most of our life is not spent in trying to be obedient, but in maintaining this relationship—being the “friend of the bridegroom.”

Christian work can actually be a means of diverting a person’s focus away from Jesus Christ.  Instead of being friends “of the bridegroom,” we may become amateur representatives of God to someone else, working against Him while we use His shield of armour.  The link is there, the abundant resources are His to give, the relationship depends on us.

Ia manuia,

failauga p. anoa'i

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